Been There Got Out Podcast
Been There Got Out Podcast
Latest Episodes
Children in Charge: What New Custody Rules Mean If Your Ex Weaponizes the Kids
If you’ve ever been told that your child’s therapist wrote a letter for court and then watched a judge refuse to even look at it, this conversation explains why, and what actually works instead.In this interview, New Jersey domestic vio...
She Coined the Term “Co-Parenting” - Anne P. Mitchell on Surviving False Allegations
Some of the language we all use in family court every day didn’t always exist. The word “co-parenting” is one of them — and the attorney credited with introducing it sits down with us in this conversation. Anne P. Mitchell was one of the first ...
Ashish Joshi: Parental Alienation Cases That Hold Up in Court
Two labels get used for very different situations in family court, and mixing them up changes who the judge thinks is to blame. A "high conflict" case is two parents who can't agree on a pediatrician or a summer camp. A family violence case is ...
Religious Abuse & Parental Alienation: How Faith Gets Weaponized in a High-Conflict Divorce
What happens when your ex doesn’t just badmouth you to the kids, but tells them God is on their side? In this episode, Lisa talks with interfaith minister and trauma-informed therapist Sherri Heller about one of the most under-recognized weapon...
The Science of Self-Medication: Trauma, PTSD & Substance Use After Abuse
If you've been living in a high-conflict divorce or custody battle, you probably know that feeling all too well — the exhaustion that never quite leaves, the hypervigilance, the sense that your nervous system has forgotten how to relax. And for...