Been There Got Out Podcast
Chris and Lisa of BeenThereGotOut.com both survived toxic marriages with narcissistic partners and the legal and co-parenting nightmares that go hand-in-hand with all of that.If you are struggling in a high-conflict relationship, divorce, custody battle, or co-parenting hell which requires PERSONALIZED attention, let us HOLD YOUR HAND along the way, while providing EXPERT, STRATEGIC guidance based on one's years of success (representing myself in court!), coupled with the other's High Conflict Divorce Coach certification.Our podcast features interviews with lawyers, therapists, co-parenting coordinators, guardians ad litem, and other subject matter experts, as well as other content, all with one goal in mind: Let us teach you how to HELP YOURSELF!
Podcasting since 2022 • 348 episodes
Been There Got Out Podcast
Latest Episodes
SB 1192: How California Is Fighting Post-Separation Legal Abuse
If your ex keeps dragging you back to court - filing motion after motion just to control, harass, and drain you, you already know how the legal system can become the abuser's most powerful weapon. What you might not know is that California is o...
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Season 2026
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Episode 349
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31:49
Why 14 is the Most Dangerous Age for Parental Alienation: a Psychologist Explains
What if the moment your child starts pulling away isn't a sign of failure, but the beginning of a chapter you can still write?Dr. Gloria Vanderhorst has spent 50 years as a psychologist inside divorce cases, family courts, and the offic...
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Season 2026
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Episode 348
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44:48
What Really Happens When CPS Investigates You During a Custody Battle
What CPS Is Actually Looking For When They Knock on Your DoorWhen Child Protective Services shows up during a high-conflict divorce or custody battle, the fear can be overwhelming. You might be terrified of losing your children, furious...
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Season 2026
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Episode 347
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33:22
Why You Married a Narcissist & How to Make Sure Your Kids Don’t
Have you ever looked back at your relationship with your ex and wondered: how did I get here? Why did I choose someone who would eventually turn the courts, the kids, maybe even your own family against you? Why did this feel so normal... at fir...
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Season 2026
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Episode 346
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41:44
Your Child Isn't Lying. They're Code-Switching. Here's What That Means.
Your child cried at your house about how much they hate going to their other parent's home. Then you found out they had a great time. Or they came home from your ex's house perfectly happy, when you expected them to be upset. Or they told you o...
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Season 2026
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Episode 345
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31:44