Been There Got Out Podcast
Chris and Lisa of BeenThereGotOut.com both survived toxic marriages with narcissistic partners and the legal and co-parenting nightmares that go hand-in-hand with all of that.If you are struggling in a high-conflict relationship, divorce, custody battle, or co-parenting hell which requires PERSONALIZED attention, let us HOLD YOUR HAND along the way, while providing EXPERT, STRATEGIC guidance based on one's years of success (representing myself in court!), coupled with the other's High Conflict Divorce Coach certification.Our podcast features interviews with lawyers, therapists, co-parenting coordinators, guardians ad litem, and other subject matter experts, as well as other content, all with one goal in mind: Let us teach you how to HELP YOURSELF!
Episodes
189 episodes since 2022
Navigating High-Conflict Divorce with Emotional Mastery
Feeling like you're barely holding on while navigating the choppy waters of high-conflict divorce and co-parenting? Meaghan Johnson, also known as "A Mindful Sip" on social media, understands your pain. After a debilitating spinal injury led he...
September 18, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 188
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52:11
Confronting Parental Alienation in Custody Battles
Unlock the secrets to navigating the choppy waters of parental alienation with Billie Tarascio, an Arizona attorney leading a transformative legal battle. In our revealing sit-down, Billie demystifies the controversial term 'parental alienation...
September 16, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 187
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28:45
Breaking Intergenerational Bonds of Toxic Relationships
Navigating the choppy waters of parenting within a toxic relationship is a journey no one should have to sail alone. In this episode, BTGO's own Chris joins Lisa for a brief, impromptu talk, when we weren't able to connect with our scheduled gu...
September 13, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 186
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15:56
Exploring the Shadows of Narcissistic Control
Unveil the hidden mechanisms of narcissistic manipulation as Coach Elizabeth Shaw joins us for a candid discussion on behaviors that disrupt lives and relationships. Together, we dissect 'dry begging', a coercive tactic where narcissists cunnin...
September 11, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 185
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59:42
Unlocking Courtroom Success with Judge Anthony Bompiani
Unlock the secrets of courtroom success with Judge Anthony Bompiani as we revisit the critical importance of presentation in legal cases. Our conversation peels back the layers of complexity in the justice system, revealing that the strongest c...
September 09, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 184
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48:44
The Heartful Approach to Child Safety
Join us for a rare and enlightening chat with Christy Keating, the powerhouse behind the Heartful Parent Collective and the pioneering Safe Parenting Summit. Christy, with her dual expertise as a certified parent coach and a former sex crimes p...
September 06, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 183
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16:42
Conquering the Courtroom as a Pro Se Litigant
Unlock the secrets of courtroom success for self-represented litigants with Connecticut's own Eric Reinkin, a seasoned personal injury attorney, who joins us on a journey through the do's and don'ts of legal self-representation. Whether it's th...
September 04, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 182
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38:18
Strategies for Surviving Custody Disputes & Finding Balance
Embark on an emotional voyage with Ann Silvers, a counselor whose diverse background in microbiology and authorship equips her with unique insights into the stormy seas of high-conflict legal situations. Traverse through the tangle of raw emoti...
September 02, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 181
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53:40
Surviving Narcissistic Abuse and Parental Alienation
When Jon, aka "Male Victim Jon," graced our studio, he brought with him the harrowing tales of a 27-year marriage overshadowed by narcissistic abuse and the heartache of parental alienation. Peering into a world where manipulation masquerades a...
August 30, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 180
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56:36
Holistic High-Conflict Divorce Strategies
When the ground beneath you shifts, and you find yourself amidst a whirlwind of legal terms and emotional chaos, the guiding hand of someone who's been in the trenches is invaluable. That's what brought Dara Marias, a Las Vegas attorney with a ...
August 28, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 179
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45:46
Parenting with Emotional Intelligence in High-Conflict Divorce
Have you ever wondered whether a child can flourish under the guidance of just one emotionally attuned parent? Life and parenting coach Darlene Childress joins us to challenge the notion that perfect alignment between co-parents is necessary fo...
August 26, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 178
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47:45
Safeguarding Children with SoberLink's Innovative Alcohol Monitoring
Have you ever stood at the crossroads of hope and fear, wondering if there's a way to bridge the gap between safety for your children and the struggles of co-parenting with an alcohol-involved ex-partner? It's a question that haunts many, but i...
August 23, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 177
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25:15
Navigating Childhood Amidst High-Conflict Parenting & Divorce
Unlock the secrets to fostering resilience in children amid high-conflict parenting and divorce with relationship coach Raquel Reis, who joins us to share her expert insights and personal experiences. We understand that the chaos of family stri...
August 21, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 176
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32:27
Bridges to Healing: The Art of Matching with the Right Therapist
Discovering the path to healing isn't always straightforward, but this episode offers a guiding light. Lauren Barnett, an experienced mental health professional turned 'therapy matchmaker,' joins us to unravel the complexities of finding a ther...
August 19, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 175
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37:14
Harnessing Inner Strength for Personal Triumph
When the weight of the world feels like it's resting on our shoulders, sometimes all we need is someone to help us lift it off. That's where our guest, Maura McIntyre, a seasoned recovery coach, comes in, guiding us through the intricate dance ...
August 16, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 174
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56:43
Co-Parenting Within Blended Family Dynamics
Navigating the complexities of blended families and high-conflict parenting plans isn't for the faint of heart — Maarit from Blended Family Frappe joins us with insights as rich and bold as the coffee blend her platform is named after. Anyone w...
August 14, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 173
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43:50
Protecting Kids from Parental Alienation with Secure Attachment Theory
Unlock the secrets to nurturing resilience in children amidst the turmoil of parental alienation with the insights of Dawn Brauer, a pediatric physical therapist and secure attachment specialist, known on Instagram as @securebabies. In our hear...
August 12, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 172
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57:57
Confronting Coercive Control: New Jersey's New Law
Unlock the complexities of New Jersey's domestic violence laws with our guest, Melissa Cohen of Seiden Family Law. We're peeling back the layers of the state's legal system, focusing on the evolution and impact of coercive control legislation. ...
August 09, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 171
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1:06:38
Strategies for Financial Stability in Divorce
Unlock the secrets of financial stability during one of life's most challenging transitions with our conversation featuring Certified Divorce Lending Professional Kim Pauley. Prepare to find clarity amidst the turbulence of asset division as we...
August 07, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 170
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25:35
The Art of Co-Parenting Without Conflict
Prepare to be guided through the emotional terrain of co-parenting by none other than Anthony Johnson, affectionately known as "AJ the Co-Parenting Coach." Take a seat with us as we traverse the complexities of navigating parenting post-separat...
August 05, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 169
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44:32
Protecting Yourself from Tax Abuse in High-Conflict Divorce
How do abusers exploit the tax system to further control their victims? In this episode, we're joined by Nancy Rosner, an esteemed attorney and executive director of the Community Tax Law Project, to uncover the chilling tactics used in financi...
August 02, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 168
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42:16
Transforming Aggression Into Healthy Expression for Boys
Navigating the stormy seas of raising boys through divorce and aggression can feel overwhelming, but Tosha Schore from Parenting Boys Peacefully joins us to chart a course toward calmer waters. Our latest episode unpacks the "boys will be boys"...
July 31, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 167
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29:07
Child Protective Services & Domestic Violence Cases
Have you ever pondered the tightrope walk that Child Protective Services (CPS) workers perform daily? Our guest, Evynne Fair, a veteran attorney with deep roots in law enforcement and CPS, joins us to illuminate the delicate balance between chi...
July 29, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 166
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52:45
The Transformative Power of Aerial Fitness & Fellowship
Discover the unexpected strength and joy found in the art of pole dancing as Aileen, the vibrant owner of Empowered Aerial Fitness Studio, joins us for a profound conversation about transformation and community. In this episode, we unravel Aile...
July 26, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 165
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35:00
High-Conflict Co-Parenting & Kids with Special Needs
Unlock the complexities of raising children with special needs in high-conflict situations with the help of Lisa Lightner, an expert IEP advocate and a mother with firsthand experience. This episode is a deep dive into the realities of co-paren...
July 24, 2024
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Season 2024
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Episode 164
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38:32